“It was a really big decision and we weren’t really ready for Hospice,
but it was the best decision we could have made.
Al had a feeding tube and had been hospitalized 3 times last year for pneumonia,
due to aspirating fluid into his lungs. Twice he had been sent to a nursing home for rehab after
being discharged from the hospital, however the care he received left much to be desired.
At 88, I knew I could take better care of him than they did, so I promised him I would make
sure that he never went back and that I would keep him home with me.
Al’s doctors also said he needed to have two major surgeries but because he
was almost 90 years old, we didn’t want this wonderful husband and father to suffer and possibly
not survive either of the surgeries. So, we made a family decision and Al decided he wanted to live out the
remainder of his life with those he loved and not suffer through his remaining days.
A dear friend of ours, who is a doctor, said “If it was my Dad, I wouldn’t put him through that!
You’re not prolonging his life, you’re prolonging his death”. It made sense to us so we called in Hospice.
Hospice was incredible! The care they provided Al was beyond our expectations.
They were always only one call away if I needed help or had a question. They not only took care of
Al, they were there for me too. All I had to do was ask and it was taken care of.
The support they gave both of us was so incredible that without them, I wouldn’t have been
able to get through this. It was hard, but knowing that someone was there, really helped.
They were just awesome and they couldn’t have done more for him! They made sure he was never
in any pain and the kindness they showed was so amazing that we called them “Al’s Angels”!
Thank you Hospice and all your “Angels”!
Elaine Drake
Dee Stanley”